Winter Coaches

Boys Ice Hockey

Coach Barbin

Entering his 25th season as head coach of the Big Red hockey program, Dana Barbin has enjoyed a string of success that has included a New England Championship, 4 trips to the tournament "Final Four," 14 quarterfinal appearances and a  499-198-46 record. His championship team of 1998-99 posted a stunning 30 wins against just three losses, earning him prep hockey "Coach of the Year" accolades.  His 2009 squad went 28-5-2 advancing to the the N.E. Championship game and his 2016 team became his 5th team to win 25 or more games in a season.

Over the years, Coach Barbin has sent numerous players on to Division I and Division III college hockey. Thirteen of his former players have been drafted by National Hockey League clubs.

A 1981 graduate of the University of New Hampshire, Coach Barbin, served as a co-captain, and was part of the Wildcats' 1979 ECAC championship team. From 1981 to 1987, he played professionally in both Denmark and Sweden.  He also coached the Danish National team from 1985 to 1987. Barbin is a 2013 inductee in the New Hampshire Legends Hall of Fame.
Coach Barbin, who came to Exeter in 1987, was the assistant varsity baseball coach for 26 years and is now the head coach. From 1989 to 1999, he served as the school's athletic director.

Barbin is married to Marianne Billing Barbin, Assistant Director of Athletic Operations at Phillips Exeter. They have a 19-year-old son, Henrik. 

Send email to Coach Dana Barbin.

Winter Indoor Track & Field

Coach Coder

Coach Hilary Coder has coached track and field at Exeter for 25 years. Her approach and key to success has been simple: Take great kids who want to learn and work and find coaches whose love for and knowledge of the sport is apparent and combine the two.

Indoor Track at Exeter continues to grow and thrive. A combination of track specialists and other serious athletes training for other spring sports creates a formidable group which competes against a variety of opponents throughout the winter months. There is competition for JVs against other comparable athletes as well as the highest level of challenge (open meets at colleges and the National High School Scholastic Championship in New York) for our most serious and accomplished athletes.

Supported by a number of experienced coaches, Coach Coder is a USA Track and Field certified Level II coach in all event groups. Only a handful of high school coaches in the country hold that level and breadth of certification. One step away from Level III recognition, Coach Coder loves indoor track for the chaos and energy that only indoor track can duplicate. She was a New England Champion high jumper in high school and was also an athlete at Penn State before coming to Exeter.

Coach Coder is also the head coach of Spring Outdoor Track & Field and Soccer at Exeter.

Send email to Coach Hilary Coder.

Girls Swimming & Diving

Coach Farnum

Entering her 27th season at the helm of the Swimming and Diving Program, Farnum’s success can be seen both in the numbers in the win column as well as championship banners hanging poolside.   Over her Exeter career, she owns an impressive 150-32-1 (.819) overall record.  Along with those impressive numbers come ten undefeated seasons and six New England titles.    Over the years, 93 Exeter female swimmers and divers have won New England Championship event titles.  Additionally, dozens of Exeter competitors have earned All- America or All-America Consideration accolades. Exeter’s team has been nationally ranked since the 1994-1995 season. A number of competitors continue collegiate swimming and diving in both Division I and III programs.  Farnum was the 2003 recipient of the New England Prep School Swimming and Diving Distinguished Service Award and a 2006 recipient of the NISCA 25 year Service Award.  A graduate of Springfield College with a B.S. and M.Ed., Farnum was a four-year national qualifier for not only swimming but also one-and-three meter diving.  A former record holder for swimming and diving events while at Springfield College, Farnum was also a New England Collegiate Diving Champion. Farnum is also the head coach of Girls Tennis.

Send email to Coach Jean Farnum.


Coach Hudson

This is Dave Hudson's second tenure at Exeter. This time he's back as chair of the physical education department and wrestling coach.

Hudson also coached Exeter wrestling from 1982 to 1991. He then moved on to St. Lawrence University, where he coached wrestling from 1991 to 1995. He spent the next four years at Governor Dummer Academy as athletic director and wrestling coach. In 1999 Hudson returned to Exeter.

After serving as an assistant wrestling coach under Ethan Shapiro for two years, Hudson took over as head coach six years ago. Shapiro, now the Director of Summer School, stayed on as an assistant coach. "We have the exact, same philosophy," Hudson said. Either Hudson or Shapiro has coached the team since 1985. During that time, Exeter has won 12 Class A championships and eight New England titles.

Send email to Coach Dave Hudson.

Girls Ice Hockey

Coach Pacific

Coach Pacific has been the girl's ice hockey head coach since 2006 following an internship year in 2005. 
A native of Rockford, Illinois, Coach Pacific played youth hockey there, then played high school hockey at St. Mark's School in Southborough, MA. She played on the U.S. Under-22 National Team in 2000 and 2002 and graduated in 2005 from The Ohio State University with a BA and MA in Sport and Exercise Studies: Coaching and Sport Performance. She played for the OSU women's ice hockey team from its inaugural season in 1999, persevering through two major injuries to complete her career in 2005.
Coach Pacific was an OSU scholar-athlete. Her awards and honors include Verizon At-Large Academic All-District Team, Western Collegiate Hockey Association (WCHA) Scholar All-American, WCHA All-Academic Team, Academic All-Big Ten, OSU Most Valuable Defensive Player 2004, OSU captain in 2000 and 2001, assistant captain in 2005, and WCHA and USCHO player of the week awards.
In 2007, Coach Pacific was a USA Hockey Evaluator for the Southeast District Try-out Camp, and in 2007, 2008, USA Hockey asked her to be an evaluator for the New England District Showcase and Festival try-outs. Also in 2008, she coached in a USA Hockey Player Development Camp for the Southern Amateur Hockey Association (SAHA) in Nashville, TN.  Recently she coached at the U17 Select National Camp in Lake Placid, NY.  Coach Pacific is also part of the U15 National Development program and in the summer of 2009 she attended the U15 National Camp as a goalie coach and evaluator. In 2011 Coach Pacific was an evaluator for USA Hockey at the Rocky Mountain District camp in Salt Lake. 
In addition to coaching ice hockey at Exeter, Coach Pacific also coaches the girls water polo team.

Send email to Coach Melissa Pacific.

Girls Basketball

Coach Kim

Ron Kim is the Assistant Principal and an Instructor in History, and he returns to coaching girls basketball this winter.  As a youth in southern California, he was a three-sport athlete in water polo, basketball, and swimming, and earned high school America honors in water polo.  He coached girls basketball for twelve years alongside Rick Mahoney, who led the PEA girls basketball teams to three Class A championship appearances and a title in the team’s undefeated 1990 season.  Coach Kim emphasizes hard work, team unity, and student leadership as the foundation of success

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Boys Swimming and Diving

Coach Mills

Don Mills started with the water polo program in 2002 as an assistant under legendary coach and program founder Roger Nekton.  Mills assumed the head job in 2005 of both the water polo and swimming  teams and his teams have gone on to win three New England titles and earn eight all-American honors.
Mills is a member of the physical education department since ’02 and serves as the Director of the Ninth Grade Physical Education Program.  The Plymouth State University grad is also the head coach of the varsity cycling team which has earned seven New England titles.
Coach Mills heads Wentworth Hall where he resides with his wife Susan, daughter Audrey and son Charlie.    The three time all-American tri-athlete is a proponent of physical fitness for the entire Exeter community.  Mills’ philosophy; “They don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care”. 

Send email to Coach Don Mills.

Boys and Girls Squash

Coach Brussel

Fred Brussel is entering his fourth year as the Head Squash Coach at Phillips Exeter Academy after having served as an assistant squash and tennis coach at Exeter since 2001. He brings over 20 years of coaching experience having previously been the Head Squash Coach at The United States Military Academy at West Point and at Colby College. In addition to coaching, he was a squash instructor at the Uptown Racquet Club in New York City and the San Francisco Bay Club.

Exeter has sent squash players to Harvard, Brown, MIT, and Williams in the last 4 years. Over the past 20 years Exeter has sent squash players to every major Division 1 and Division III college program, Exeter has a proud history of developing squash players who keep playing the sport for life. Fred notes that the Fisher Squash Center is one of the premier squash facilities in the whole country. Its outstanding design makes it ideal for playing, coaching, and hosting competitions. Indeed, since we celebrated the completion of the Fisher Squash Center in October 2005, Exeter has hosted the Annual New England Interscholastic Squash Championships every other season.

Exeter remains grateful to the Fisher family for their support of the Fisher Squash Center where every day students advance in athleticism, sportsmanship and skill.

Send email to Coach Brussel

Boys Basketball

Coach Tilton

Entering his 13th season with the Big Red, Coach Tilton has guided multiple playoff teams to the prestigious NEPSAC tournament. In 2012-13, Exeter amassed a 25-1 record—the most in school history—and celebrated the program's first NEPSAC Championship. In 2013-14, Big Red basketball followed with 17 victories and celebrated its 2nd consecutive Class A title. Eight players have received All League recognition over the past 3 years. In 2012-13, Tilton was awarded Class A Coach Of The Year.

Phillips Exeter basketball continues to serve as a springboard program for aspiring collegiate athletes. Since 2007, Exeter has produced 16 Division 1 and 32 Division 3 players at many of the elite academic colleges and universities across the country, including two All-Ivy players and a Division 3 National Rookie of the Year.

A 1992 graduate of Hobart College, Tilton served as the men's Assistant Basketball Coach at Dartmouth College in the Ivy League from 1997-2001. Tilton also coached an Exeter alumni team to a 6-0 record versus professional teams in Iceland, Sweden and Denmark in the summer of 2013.

Tilton serves as the Associate Director of Admissions and lives on campus with his wife Darcy.

Send e-mail to Coach Jay Tilton.